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Abuse culture is still unfortunately alive & well in the workplace

Stories relating to inappropriate conduct demonstrated by those in power as well as the vilification & smearing of victims are some of the main reasons why the Me Too & Time’s Up movements were formed. As unfortunate as it is to see backfire against said movements due to bad actors using them for vindictive & malicious reasons, one cannot deny the importance they hold within our society. Because of them, numerous figures within the twisted world of Hollywood were finally being held to the fire in ways they should’ve been years ago & are continuing to be exposed til this day. However, there’s a major difference between reading up about them & living out those experiences for yourself. I happen to fit in both of these categories. During March to July of 2024, I was a member of San Carlo, a restaurant located in Terminal 2 of Manchester Airport. During my time there, I was made to feel as though I my efforts meant little to nothing, I was routinely verbally abused for ...

Sexual Abuse, The Law & Censorship

Criticism can be applied to anything. However, it’s how you do it that matters. In this particular case, it can be extremely tricky. While I’m fully aware that there are a lot of malicious people who’ll do anything to destroy the lives of people they don’t like, if you do it to someone who could actually be a victim of sexual abuse to the point of harassment & bullying, you’d be a victim blamer by definition. Now, how does this apply to censorship? Well, that’s if you’re the one who’s being accused & the victim. If you’re first way of responding to sexual abuse allegations is threatening legal action, people have a right to treat you with suspicion. As mentioned previously, I’m aware that there are a lot of malicious people who’ll do anything to destroy the lives of people they don’t like, but if you’re not willing to immediately tell your side, provide evidence that can’t be easily debunked or have credible witnesses, you’re not only trying to hide the truth by abusing the pow...